Seeking Validation VS. Security In Your Own Skin

Knowing who you are, where your going in life, and loving yourself, Is Priceless. Many people search for that security in themselves. If you find yourself searching for approval from others, living to their expectations, Letting them know your every move on your journey of life and goals, Not feeling comfortable in your own skin, You are lacking self esteem and confidence. Which will lead you to wanting "Validation". Which can be as simple, as finding yourself bragging to much,constant updates of your day to day life. For others to think your such a successful person, You shouldn't have to seek others approval or expectations of what you should be doing. They are just looking for results and control over your life. Be your own boss. You call the shots. The only one person to stand in your shadow is you and God. No one else opinion of you should matter.You know who you are and you can show others with your actions. Not by bragging or over reaching, looking desperate. Being humble and being secure in your own skin, will bring you the ultimate reward you deserve. Which in return will have you in the spot light.

Be about what you Preach......

If you find yourself giving advice, but not taking your own. When your in the same situation. That is hypocrisy. If you can dish it you can take it. Be about what you preach or sell. For instances, your giving someone advice about being financially secure and good money management skills. But yet you are in debt, no money, no savings whatsoever. Why should anyone listen to you about their finances. It's contradictory! Then your credibility is at low. No one wants to buy into what your preaching or selling. Be a man or woman of your word. Don't go around having everyone fooled. When you know you don't follow your own words. It just say a lot about you.... And it's not positive. You look silly.