Seeking Validation VS. Security In Your Own Skin
Knowing who you are, where your going in life, and loving yourself, Is Priceless. Many people search for that security in themselves. If you find yourself searching for approval from others, living to their expectations, Letting them know your every move on your journey of life and goals, Not feeling comfortable in your own skin, You are lacking self esteem and confidence. Which will lead you to wanting "Validation". Which can be as simple, as finding yourself bragging to much,constant updates of your day to day life. For others to think your such a successful person, You shouldn't have to seek others approval or expectations of what you should be doing. They are just looking for results and control over your life. Be your own boss. You call the shots. The only one person to stand in your shadow is you and God. No one else opinion of you should matter.You know who you are and you can show others with your actions. Not by bragging or over reaching, looking desperate. Being humble and being secure in your own skin, will bring you the ultimate reward you deserve. Which in return will have you in the spot light.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
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I agree totally.. I think most of us constantly seek other approval to stair our life, hence, not fulfilling our own unique potential. I think it all starts from our immediate family, then peers, and later the general society. the most successful people are those who have re-assured themselves and followed their bliss
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